So Where Do Spouses Cheat?

3 Favorite Places for Your Cheating Spouse to Cheat: Catch a Cheater Now 

What are the favorite places a cheating spouse likes to cheat?
Ever wonder that?
I don't know anything about fishing, but I've watched a few shows (big stress on "few") on fishing to know that fish tend to hang out at certain spots in a lake either because there's an abundance of food or it's safe. And just like fish cheaters don't have the freedom to just chill out wherever they want. So to catch a cheater you have to think like a cheater. Cheaters' fishing holes aren't always at secret cheap motels and other tough to get places. Some cheating spots are closer than you'd think.
So the question is: Do you WANT to know where you can "hook" your cheating spouse today or not?
3 Places Your Cheating Spouse Will Likely Cheat
Then again any time spent with a married woman is awful! (And I do not mean just because there are plenty of single fish in the sea, but that's for another time.) The experience at least allows me to help you move on with your life to uncover the ugly truth that your spouse is off swimming with some other smelly, slimy fish (yes, pun is intended here).
1. The Car
This fishing hole provides plenty of dark, juicy secrets. Your spouse's car is abundant with evidence. You just have to be there when the water is warm. Here's the evidence your cheating husband or wife's car will contain at some point.

• Gifts for their lover.
• Supplies to leave at their lover's home. (sexy lingerie, lubricants, candles, shower caps, body wash, perfume, body splash, make up, shampoo- you get the idea)
• Supplies to use for a date. (sexy lingerie, lubricants, candles, their lover's favorite snacks, games, sports equipment)
• Clothes to change into for their date and out of back into their work clothes.
• Love letters for their lover.
• Love letters from their lover.
• Strands of hair from their lover.
• Receipts for gifts.
• Receipts from dates.
• Cameras with pics from their dates.
• Their lover's shoes.
• Suitcases for quick getaways.
• Make up.

The car is also the place where the majority of their phone conversations take place.
2. The Bedroom/Master Bathroom
When the spouse is away the fish will play (or something like that). Yes, when there is no murky water to float around in to hide their secrets some cheaters are so desperate they will actually do their junk in YOUR bedroom. (I never did this, but I have heard and read about it.) But try as they might some fish cannot evade being caught by sharks (you). Even the slimiest and most evasive fish leave evidence of their stinky activity.
When you are at work or on a trip the bedroom provides a spot for the fish to swim around in and get all crazy. Here is some activity that your lovely spouse takes part in inside your bedroom with their lover or evidence they leave behind.
Activities the Cheaters Participate in Here

• Skype conversations
• Text conversations (sometimes when you are with them.)
• Phone conversations
• Sexting
• Kinky video chat
• Sex itself (of course)
• Kinky sex in the shower
• Naked massages
• Lay together and watch TV
• Play games (board and video)

Evidence the Cheaters Leave Behind Here

• Pubic hairs in shower
• Their lover's hair in shower and bed
• Semen on sheets
• Semen in shower, bathroom floor, bedroom floor, sink
• Semen in undergarments and clothing
• Brief love letters (especially hot for your spouse's lover since they are treading on your territory)
• Your spouse's perfume or cologne scents
• Left behind socks
• Left behind receipts from stores your spouse does not shop at
• Gifts from their lover to your spouse (jewelry, clothes, candy, movies)

Pay attention to their personal items and anything new will stand out like a red flag. Look for anything fishy (no pun intended there).
3. The Home Office
Why do they keep getting up in the middle of the night to run off to the office? Well, it's not to work on their thesis or to get ahead on work projects. The home office is a treasure chest of secrets too, perhaps more so then the bedroom. If you notice bubbles surfacing to the top of the water by the home office don't be surprised if it's the two of them chatting away on the computer. Here are some activities and evidence the two love trouts participate in at the home office.
Activities the Cheaters Participate in Here

• Lots of video chats.
• Lots of Facebook IMing.
• Lots of love emails.
• Lots of phone conversations.
• Old fashioned paper lover letter writing.
• Other cell phone app communication.

Evidence the Cheaters Leave Behind Here

• Obviously a shared computer and iPad is a major fishing hole for emails, videos and pictures.
• Hidden written lover letters.
• Documents of mutual bank accounts opened for the two of them (gives them a sense of being an actual couple.)
• Receipts of dates or trips taken together
• Actual print pictures.
• Personal articles from their lover (they serve as souvenirs).

The home office is a place of refuge, a place to escape the real world and bond with their lover. You look hard enough and often enough you will find physical evidence.
If only you could barge in and catch them red-handed during their conversations.
Your stomach is sour. Your heart is aching. Why are they living a double life? You never dreamed this would happen in your worst nightmare, but the ugly truth is infidelity is on the rise and you are a victim.

Now you know the types of evidence to look for. But what now? Learn how and when to uncover your cheating spouse's tracks from this former cheater.
When you have some concrete cheating evidence what should you do next? This former betrayed spouse provides his suggestions that will save you from further disaster and pain.

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Cheating spouses are horrible

Inspector Poirot Will Catch Your Cheating Partner

Hiring a Private Detective to Catch a Cheating Partner

These frequently asked questions should provide readers with an insight into some of the issues that have to be considered very carefully before choosing to hire a private detective to catch a cheating partner.
Hiring a Private detective
Is it ethical to hire a private investigator?
This is one of the most common concerns when contemplating hiring a private detective, especially when attempting to catch a cheating partner. If a secret affair could be described as duplicitous and deceitful, then how would we describe the act of secretly employing an investigator to monitor their every move?
Unfortunately for both us and our clients, cases in which initial suspicions prove true account for the vast majority of cheating partner investigations we deal with. In these cases, there is hardly a moral case to argue. Often, the suspecting spouse has given the cheating partner every opportunity to come clean about their affair, choosing only to turn to the help of a private detective when the cycle suspicion and denial continues. But that doesn't the decision to hire a private detective any easier.
In cases when the actions of a suspected cheating partner can be explained innocently, the ethical and moral case can seem less clear. But finding out that initial suspicions are unfounded can bring long lasting peace of mind. In these cases the suspecting party may chose to tell their loved one which aspects of behaviour caused suspicion in the first place, spurring them on to change their ways and help re-establish trust in the relationship
What steps can I take myself before hiring a private investigator?
If you're reading this article, the chances are that you already have strong suspicions that your partner is having an affair and feel that hiring a private detective might offer a solution. But how can you be sure that you've taken every step to offer your cheating partner to come clean? Confronting your partner may be enough to either confirm or allay your suspicions and these articles on the five signs of a cheating partner and how to catch a cheating partner will give you the information you need to get started. If you still have doubts after trying out all the tactics and the guide, it's time to call in a private investigator.
What if I get found out?
When investigating a suspected cheating partner it's important to choose the right private detective for the job. An experienced private investigator will have all the necessary experience and know-how to carry out surveillance effectively and discretely without compromising the client. Choosing the right private detective is one of the most important factors that will determine your success.
Do I really want to know the truth about my cheating partner?
You already know the answer to that question. Finding out the truth about a cheating partner can be one of the most devastating and heartbreaking moments that life can throw at you. For some couples the damage is irreparable but others learn to work through their differences, emerging from the trauma stronger and with a renewed sense of commitment. For an experienced an ethical private detective the work shouldn't end when the evidence has been gathered and presented to the client. Make sure your counsellor can put you in touch with a registered, experienced counsellor to help both parties make a new start and move on with life - whatever they decide to do.

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Catch That Dirty Cheating Spouse Today!

How to Catch a Cheating Spouse

 So after reading our article "Indicators of Infidelity" you have determined that there are more than enough indicators to suspect that your spouse may be having an affair. Maybe they are hiding their cell phone and not allowing you to read emails or text messages. Perhaps they are constantly staying late after work more often than they use to, or coming home with a sweet smell of perfume or cologne on their clothing. Maybe the intimacy in your relationship has slacked off and your spouse is no longer appearing attracted to you. Whatever the many indicators you have received, now you want to prove it. This is a very touchy area so proceed forward with caution.

You may come right out and try to confront the cheater with your suspicions, which could end up in a full-blown argument that could possibly turn violent. What happens if there is actually a once in a lifetime explanation to your suspicions? Now you are back in an argument over trust related issues. It may be a better idea to make sure you have actual proof of a cheating spouse before you confront him/her, or before you make the decision to separate. Your situation can be more difficult when trying to divide up property, money, custody rights, alimony, etc, without proof of a cheating spouse.

Additionally, if you are going to try and bring forth a lawsuit for Alienation of Affection or Criminal Conversation, proof of an affair, especially before separation, is imperative that you obtain the proper proof of an affair. There are a few things you can do that will make your case stronger when bringing evidence before the court to prove that your spouse is unfaithful. Make sure you keep all documentation of all potential evidence you discover and write it down, including date and time of discovery. In law enforcement, one of the most important parts of our job was our report writing. We were trained over and over again, "if you don't right it down, it didn't happen." Obviously this is a figure of speech, but if you are going to present some evidence but cannot provide specifics, it may bear no merit when presented in court. Additionally, if you record some details, but later present other details you remember but you failed to document, this could come back and hurt your claim as well. Here are a few steps and tips you can use to help gather documentation of a cheating spouse: Keep a Journal: Obviously for the reasons mentioned above. Even if you don't have any solid proof your spouse was cheating, documenting suspicious behaviors over an extended period of time can help your claim. For instance, you may document the following journal entry: January 24, 2015 7:00PM John arrived home from work 2 hours late. John typically arrives home promptly at 5:00PM from work. John has been staying late at the office on many occasions over the last two weeks.

Additionally I noticed what appeared to be a faint odor of perfume on his shirt and a tan colored substance on his collar that appeared to be make-up. Do the Laundry: Whether you are accustomed to doing the laundry around the house or not, begin paying closer attention to your spouse's clothing as you are placing them in the washer. Look for any clues such as make up, cologne or perfume, "foreign substances," or even articles of clothing that you have not seen before that may have been gifts from the cheater's girlfriend or boyfriend. Again be sure to document anything unusual. (Tip: "a photo is worth a thousand words") Track their mileage: If you are able to be stealthy enough, start recording the mileage in their car. When (S)he comes home, write down the mileage on their car, if they have to "run out" at any time be sure to write down the ending mileage and casually ask where they had to go. If your spouse tells you they had to run into the office late at night, or had to run to the mall, and you calculated that their office or the mall is 8 miles away, but they drove 32 miles, they have 16 miles to explain for. (8 miles away plus 8 miles back equals 16 miles total). Write it down!

Check the Phone Bill: If you are a joint user on your cell phone account, and you have an online account, you can log in and look at all the incoming and outgoing telephone numbers. You can make note in your journal of any unusual numbers, dates and times of calls, and even try and use the free online white pages search to find out where the number comes back to. Look at the Bank Account: For the same reason as above, if you are a joint account holder, take a look at the expenditures and where they are being spent. Are there dinners that are being bought for more than one person that you did not attend? Are there purchases at clothing stores, gift stores, for the opposite sex and you did not receive the gift? Write it Down! Computer History: Lets face it, not all cheaters are the smartest.

Look at your computer's search history, you may find hotel room booking sites, social media account visits of the opposite sex, flower delivery order sites, and more. Check the Trash: I know this is not the most glamorous of search methods, but in my experience, you can learn more about a person from going through their trash than you can by searching their social media account. People throw things in the trash without thinking and automatically think that once it hits the can, it is gone forever. If you don't have access to bank or cell phone records, you may get lucky and find a bank statement, or cell phone statement. You may also find receipts for gifts and dinners, love notes, cards, used "family planning/prevention" equipment, and much more. Be sure to glove up, take photo's, and write it down! Surveillance: This is going to be tougher than it sounds.

For obvious reasons, you probably have a job and or kids that does not allow you to follow and conduct surveillance on your spouse to see where they are going and whom they are with. Not only do you not have time, but it is going to be awfully easy for your spouse to spot you in a crowd or on the road as (S)he will be familiar with your vehicle, voice, and walk. (S)he will already be cautious and on the look out for anyone that they may know seeing them out in public with another man or woman so you may want to leave this to the professionals.

Hidden Cameras: There are a few good companies online that provide high quality hidden cameras that you can put throughout your house if you wish to catch your spouse in the act. These cameras typically are not cheap so beware, especially if you only plan to use them once, it may be beneficial to hire a professional. Hire a Private Investigator: By far one of the best ways to prove a cheating spouse is to hire our private investigators. By hiring our professional private investigators, you can be sure to get documented, unaltered, unbiased facts to present to your attorney or a judge. A private investigators report can oftentimes bear more weight as evidence as it is not seen as being written or motivated out of personal gain. Obviously you will have to pay the investigator but your payment is for factual information that is not motivated by the results of civil or criminal judgment. Additionally, our professional investigators have access to many advanced resources and databases as well as technology that can help you prove your case faster and with more accuracy.

Our investigators can provide GPS tracking and document your spouses whereabouts 24 hours a day. We can also generate a historical playback of your spouses travel to include the date, time, and address of where (S)he has been. We have high quality digital cameras as well as covert cameras so we are well prepared in any environment (S)he may enter (nightclub, bar, restaurant, hotel, etc.). Our investigators are skilled at locating people, which can benefit you when you need to have a process served during your court procedures. Hiring a private investigator can save you a lot of time and headache when preparing for a separation and or divorce. Whether you decide to hire a private investigator or not, be sure you document, document, document, everything that you do, witness, and hear. It is the little details that matter the most when you are trying to prove a cheating spouse. You may never catch your spouse in the act of cheating but enough circumstantial evidence may be all you need to prove an unfaithful party to get you the post marital support you need and deserve. If you wish to hire a private investigator, we would love to sit down with you and discuss your needs and situation. Call The Gumshoe Group Corporation today and schedule your free, no obligation, consultation today! http://www.thegumshoegroup.com investigations@thegumshoegroup.com 919-999-7932 Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/expert/Christopher_Wagner/2152597 Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/9105080

Technology And Cheating Spouses

How To Use Technology To Catch a Cheating Spouse

If you've suspected your spouse is cheating on you then you have two options, either you find the proof for yourself or you ask them outright.

Asking them outright might get to the bottom of their behavior once and for all, but do you have enough evidence to back up your accusation?

One way to do this is to use modern technology to catch them out once and for all, which ironically is often the medium cheating spouses use to cheat on their partners. But it's not as hard as you think, and you don't have to have a degree in computer science either. How they use their cell phone will be big indicator of what they are up to. They may change their tone of voice while speaking on the phone when you walk into a room. Or perhaps they seem to be phoning their friends more than usual, but they're using monotone answers like, "Yes", "No" or "OK" instead of making general conversation when they notice you're watching them.

 Have they changed the passwords on all their email accounts and blocked you out? They may have a very good reason for doing this, one way to find out is to ask them.

Most people find it uncomfortable to tell lies, so watch them closely and see how they react to your questioning. If they can't look you in the eye and look shifty then perhaps they're not being totally honest with you. If you suspect your partner of having an affair and using the computer to communicate with their lover, then you can check your computer's 'History' section. This will show you all the websites visited for a period of time, sometimes it's a week, often it's a few months depending on your browser. By searching through this list of websites visited you should be on the look for adult chat websites, pornographic websites, dating websites and so forth. It could also be that when you check the 'History' section on your computer that it has been completely cleared showing no previous websites at all. This can be a strong indicator of a spouse or partner who has something to hide.

It goes without saying before who do any of these actions you have to be very sure you can handle the truth when you find out for certain one way or the other. But you may find it's better to know one way or the other, than live your life always suspecting you're living with a cheat. To get more advice visit the Save My Marriage HQ website today to discover the secrets on how to save your marriage and enjoy a long-lasting happy relationship with your spouse. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/expert/Rene_Taylor_Houston/2248418 Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/9332085

So How DID Your Spouse Turn Into A Cheati?

3 Signs of a Cheating Spouse, and How Did He/She Get That Way?

Nothing is worse than finding out from someone they saw your spouse with someone else. On top of the initial shock that hits you, it can be embarrassment and further damage your self-esteem. If you think your spouse is cheating on you, this article will help. First it will show you a pattern of how an affair starts.

Then there are 3 signs of a cheating spouse you can look out for  

How Someone Can Become a Cheating Spouse There is a pattern a marriage can go through that can give you a better idea of how your spouse ended up cheating on you.
An understanding of this means you can just about figure things out without having your cheating spouse explain first This pattern can happen over a period of time so noticing something earlier can also help if cheating hasn't occurred yet. Just fill in the blanks to see if it matches your situation.

First the marriage will start to go through some bumps in the road (lack of attention and needs). These bumps allow a spouse to have negative thoughts towards his/her spouse ( anger, jealousy, fear and even hatred). The spouse will allow these thoughts to control his/her actions (drinking, cussing, gambling, cheating on their spouse). All it takes is temptation from a sympathetic ear and it can spark an emotional affair to develop that can develop into a physical affair.

3 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

One way to detect a cheating spouse is by noticing some signs that are easy to detect. Look out for these signs to further substantiate your suspicions that your spouse might be cheating on you. There are many other signs to look for and you will be able to find them at the link I will provide later in this article.

1. The first sign is when your spouse claims he/she has new duties at work (Working late, dinner meetings, etc...) and your spouse will start working late or even going in earlier.

2.When you notice your spouse can't talk on the phone in front of you and takes the call in another room.

3. When your spouse is defensive or is giving vague answers about his/her activity or whereabouts during the day can indicate also a cheating spouse because your spouse is going out of his/her way to withhold information from you.

I hope this helps you answer some questions you have about signs of a cheating spouse. Of course there is many other things to figure out and if you are interested then go to the link at the end of this article. You have to give your spouse plenty of attention especially during hard times so he/she doesn't end up a cheating spouse. Also you want to watch out for signs of a cheating spouse because it will be the little things you miss that will give them away every time.
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Marriage And Infidelity! Do you Want To kNow the TRuth?

Infidelity In Marriage - Cheating Spouses - Do You Want To Catch Them?

Think about this for a moment.... after long, hard hours at work for the past two weeks. Your boss calls you into their office and as you are thinking what have I done now. Your boss congratulates you on a job well done. The reward for this is; a substantial bonus and some well-deserved time off for rest and relaxation, and for the R & R to start immediately which means you only work a half a day. Knowing you have not spent a lot of quality time with your spouse. You leave work eager to tell your spouse of the great news and to surprise them with a romantic evening together with dinner, dancing and then desert. All you can do on the way home is to think about the look on your spouse face when you surprise them with the news. When you left in the morning you thought you would be working late tonight but plans change. As you pull up to the driveway you notice a familiar looking BMW car in your driveway. Not thinking much about it you proceed to the front and remember the front door is jammed and is being repaired so you go in through the back door. As you approach the back door you look up to disbelief... you see your spouse and your best friend on the kitchen floor passionately grinding and having their way with each other, having sex. So much so they do not even notice you standing and watching them. Cheating Spouses!

WOW... Ok, you now have your proof. You didn't want to believe this may be the outcome but it is. For all the time and effort you have spent on a suspicion, it has finally come to this. Proof you have a cheating spouse. How did you get to this point? What did you do to find out there is infidelity in your marriage.

You started to get suspicion when you noticed your cheating spouse spending a great amount of time on the computer when you are asleep. Or your spouse creates a new e-mail account and did not tell you anything about it. And you find strands of a different hair color on the front seat of his or her car. You become more curious when you notice a sudden buying of new clothes and under garments. These were just some of the signs that perked your interest while you started to become more observant. Then you really became intrigued when you would get phone calls at home and when you answer the phone the person would hang up when they hear your voice. You found birth-control pills or condoms when you know you cannot have children. And you noticed your spouse stops wearing their wedding ring. These are the signs that made you feel infidelity in marriage is going on within your marriage. Now it is time to be sure, what do you do?

First, DO NOT confront the cheating spouse without proof, it will be hard to get to the truth without the proof. The way to get the proof is to start writing down the things you notice to be odd concerning your partner. Dates, times, conversations considering infidelity in marriage is usually based on a lie... stories will change. Review cell phone records for any repeated calls incoming and outgoing. Usually a cheating spouse will put the name of the person who they are cheating with under a different name. On that note an unfamiliar number and a phone number that is being call numerous times throughout the day, would do more to set off bells and whistles, than just a name in their contact list. The element of surprise is an excellent way to go for proof. Come home early when your spouse thinks you're working late, or go to their office for a surprise lunch. Watch how your spouse co-workers interact with you and document what you see and if the spouse is at work or not. Are the co-workers nervous around you because the spouse is the last to know about an office affair? Set up monitor software on your computer to monitor websites visited, chat rooms entered and emails sent. And last but not least use video cameras or hire a private investigator which would be the fastest and easiest way to get the hard evidence you need. You may ask yourself if this is morally right. I say you need to do whatever it takes for your peace of mind. If you do not investigate the signs you see you will regret it if you find out later that you have a cheating spouse.

Alright, you have your evidence that your spouse is cheating. What do you do next? Either you do nothing and wait for the right moment or confront them. Remember the cheating spouse may very well deny everything until they see the evidence. Even then they will be in denial and try to blame you for their action, do not fall for that. We all must be accountable for OUR OWN actions and behavior. When you start to present your evidence, don't show all your evidence at that time. Hold back on showing all of what you have. The reason why is most cheating spouses will create their story to fit the evidence presented and when you have more evidence then they know about then the likelihood of them getting caught in a lie would be even greater.

Do you need to know what the signs are of a cheating spouse? Do you need some information on how to handle infidelity? Keep reading you will find articles that will help to get you through these hard times. If you need some guidance on how to get through Infidelity and save your marriage go to http://www.CheatingSpousesInfo.blogspot.com. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/expert/R._A._Rountree/1015607 Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/6173094